Wanting great sex is fine but if you're married then 'with whom' is a relevant matter if you also want the marriage to last.
Wanting to set up a business is another situation where 'with whom' is relevant. The right partner can be crucial to success.
Also it can become a more emotionally real future to you this way, which will help keep you on track to your goal.
So who do you see around you, in your imagination, and what are they doing and saying as you're in that successful state - you've gotten what you want so how does that change things with other people?
Is that OK? Should you adjust your goal or strategy?
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